LIVE IN THE PRESENT!

Fear is powerful because it lives in our imagination. It causes us to picture a future that doesn’t exist. This is what keeps us stuck. We are sure that “if we do x , y will happen,” and by definition, y is always bad. “If I ask for a raise, my boss will just say no and I will look like a fool,” we tell ourselves. So we keep quiet. To break the grip of fear, focus on what is now — the present moment. It’s important to experience the now and it actually prepares us for the future. This is the essence of mindfulness, which in the words of John Kabat-Zinn is “paying attention in a particular way; on purpose, in the present moment, and nonjudgmentally.” When we live mindfully something extraordinary happens. Anxiety finds little room to set up residence and you become aware of possibilities that would otherwise be missed if you were worrying about the future. Living fully present is a simple yet challenging practice. It is counter to ou...